Understand How Historical Events Impact Behaviors Across the Lifespan
Exploring the Impact of Life Experiences on the Aging Population: Shaping Views and Behaviors
Growing up, my mother would not throw away any food! She would keep a tablespoon of mashed potatoes.
Oftentimes these tiny amounts of leftovers would stay in the refrigerator for a long time. She did this until she had in-home care that would clean out the refrigerator.
To keep from being irritated about this I would tease her, and she would usually respond with something like… “Well, you never know when there might not be food available.”
Her response always struck me as odd…food was always available, but this was a habit she had as long as I can remember.
My mother was a child during the Depression. Her family did not waste food! They were thrifty and resourceful.
When I began caretaking, I realized there might be more to the impact of my mother’s life experiences on her behavior as she aged.
It may come as no surprise that our experiences, both positive and negative, leave a permanent mark on our personality. For the aging population, these life experiences play a pivotal role in shaping their present perspectives and behaviors.
From childhood upbringing to career milestones, from personal relationships to societal changes, each encounter leaves a distinct imprint on their worldview.
This idea interested me, so I decided to do a little research on a few specific national events that may have impacted the aging population and how these experiences may influence their present outlook and behaviors.
Keep reading to learn 7 ways to provide more effective understanding and support of how events impact your aging parents.
If you are interested in talking with your parents I’ve created a list of questions you can ask your parents to get more insight about their life experiences:
Over the years, my clients have cited references to 4 historical events: the Depression, the Vietnam War, the Civil Rights Movement, and 9/11.
The Great Depression (1929-1939):
The Great Depression was a period of signficant economic downturn that had implications for families across the United States. For the aging population who lived through this era, the experience left an permanent mark on their identity.
Many seniors who experienced the Great Depression firsthand developed frugal habits and a strong sense of resourcefulness that persisted throughout their lives. The scarcity and hardship of the era fostered a deep appreciation for financial stability and security, influencing their attitudes towards saving, investing, and risk aversion.
Vietnam War (1955-1975):
For veterans of the Vietnam War, the experience left lasting physical, emotional, and psychological scars. Many seniors who served in Vietnam struggles with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), disabilities, and chronic health conditions related to their military service. Sadly, the challenges of reintegrating into civilian life and navigating healthcare systems continue to shape their present experiences and perceptions of society's support for veterans.
Seniors who participated in anti-war protests, civil rights movements, and other social justice initiatives carry with them a sense of idealism and activism that persists into their later years. These experiences influence their present attitudes towards civic engagement, advocacy, and social change, often fueling a lifelong commitment to causes they believe in.
Civil Rights Movement (1950s-1960s):
The impact of the Civil Rights Movement on the aging population extends beyond activism to personal relationships and societal attitudes. Seniors who witnessed or participated in the fight for civil rights carry with them a profound sense of solidarity and empathy towards marginalized communities.
These experiences shape their present views on diversity, inclusion, and racial equity, often influencing their interactions with others and their advocacy for social justice causes. These experiences inform their present perspectives on democracy, citizenship, and the ongoing struggle for equality in America.
9/11 Terrorist Attacks (2001):
Many seniors who experienced 9/11 firsthand recall feelings of shock, fear, and grief as they witnessed the tragic events unfold on television screens and in their communities. The trauma of 9/11 continues to resonate with the aging population, influencing their attitudes towards travel, public safety, and government policies related to counterterrorism efforts.
The sense of unity and resilience in the face of adversity became emblematic of American identity for many seniors, shaping their present perspectives on resilience, community, and national unity.
Though varied from person to person the impacts of these historical events on the aging population are profound. They shaped their present views, behaviors, and societal beliefs in significant ways.
Understanding the lasting effects of these events is essential for gaining perspective, fostering empathy, promoting intergenerational dialogue, and honoring the resilience of your aging parents.
Here are 7 things caregivers can do to better understand the impact of historical events on the lives of their aging parents:
Engage in Conversations About the Past:
Take time to talk with your aging parents about their past experiences. Ask open-ended questions about their memories of significant historical events and listen actively to their stories.
Research Historical Contexts:
Educate yourself about the historical events that occurred during your parents' formative years. Understanding the broader context can provide insights into how these events may have shaped their perspectives and behaviors.
Read Books and Watch Documentaries:
Explore books, documentaries, and films that cover the historical periods your parents lived through. This can help you gain a deeper appreciation for the challenges and triumphs they experienced.
Encourage Reminiscing:
Create opportunities for your parents to reminisce by looking through old photo albums, listening to music from their era, or revisiting places that hold special meaning to them.
Promote Intergenerational Dialogue:
Encourage your children or younger family members to engage in conversations with their grandparents about history. This can foster mutual understanding and respect across generations.
Observe and Reflect on Behavior Patterns:
Pay attention to your parents' behavior, especially in relation to topics or situations that might trigger memories of past events. Reflect on how their historical experiences might influence their reactions and attitudes.
Validate Their Experiences and Feelings:
Acknowledge and validate your parents' feelings and experiences related to historical events. Let them know that their stories and perspectives are valued and respected.
By taking these steps, caregivers can develop a deeper understanding of how significant historical events have shaped their aging parents' behavior and worldview. This understanding can enhance empathy, improve communication, and strengthen the caregiving relationship.
Don’t hesitate to reach out with any questions,
Edla
NOTE: It's important to remember that aging is a highly individualized process, and the timing and progression of these stages can vary among individuals. Additionally, lifestyle factors, genetics, and overall health play significant roles in how individuals experience aging.
